Hi all,
We're returning to Dalyan in 2 weeks as we had such a lovely time there last year and we don't really do return holidays, so all I can say is lucky you

: experiencing it for the 1st time.
Sorry can't help with the apartments.
With regards things to do you should find plenty to occupy yourselves apart from soaking up the lovely atmosphere & sun.
Trips we did: boat to beach ( beach was lovely but sand was scorching!! & I personally didn't find the parasols large enough for shade for 2 people)
Early morning river trip to see turtles
Walking in Saklikent Gorge: stunning scenery & although we were a bit wary it was great. You walk about a kilometre up the river bed in plastic sandals in lovely cool water (& my OH doesn't 'do' water!)
Crossed river to view Kaunos ruins... did this ourselves. No problem as boats available to cross)
Turkish bath: a must if you've never experienced it!
Others available which we'll consider this year:
Fethiye market & deserted Greek village
Koycegiz Lake tour
Mud baths
12 islands sea gulet cruise
jeep safari
I'm sure there's more but can't remember. Overall Dalyan is a quiet-ish place compared to more lively Marmaris etc but there's plenty to do & loads of restaurants, bars etc so you're not out in the 'sticks' either.... just perfect for us & for you too I hope. enjoy!
Hope this helps.