Ive got my packing list but last year i took so much my boyfriend was cracking up as i had my own case and also had things in his and my sons case!

This year he has a new case and im not allowed to add my "junk" MEENIE. ANyway, what should i take? How many towels etc? 3? we get towels in the hotel so im thinking 3 insetead of my 5 last year will be a good start. Shoes - far too many last year, but i get a rash on my feet every year so i need different shoes.
Any tips for cutting down?
I both love and hate packing!