I have been to Egypt before some years back, I did a Nile cruise and went to Cairo but our children are quite young so I think we need to be looking at more of a resort rather than a sighteseeing holiday.
Now that is where I need your help! Ancient sites I know quite a bit about but tourist resorts I know nothing

So where is a good place to start looking? We don't want somewhere too big and we would be looking at renting an apartment rather than a hotel. Big AI hotels in the middle of nowhere are not what we want. We would like to go somewhere that is more traditional rather than purpose built where we can go out and eat in nice restaurants, not bothered about nightlife though as such as we have young children. We like to swim and have a look round markets and bazaars and it would be good if we could do a couple of trips.
Is there anywhere like that in Egypt? If so could someone point me in the direction of which resorts to look at please as I have no idea where to start looking at the moment!
Kedi