we had listened to him for over 9 hours he did get a bit quieter as the flight went on, but I cant believe that the stewardess kept selling him alcohol?
I have some sympathy for the cabin crew because at the end of the day they are just employee's with a job description, and if it says they have to go down the aisle X amounts of times during the flight with the drinks trolley, then that's what they have to do, and depending on the circumstances, they will be the people in the front line taking all the abuse.
Sometimes they can be stuck between a rock and a hard place and they cannot always judge which way an intoxicated person is going to go, whilst we may have an idea how the people whom we know react to various levels of alcohol, we are all strangers to the cabin crew.
There are certain levels of intoxication and being a fine judge is not always easy, some drink themselves silly and after a certain amount of alcohol they drift into a semi-stupor state and sleep, others become loud and go through a state of euphoria, and then others hang on the imaginary line where they are an aggressive human time bomb waiting to explode.
All of them will be mentally impaired and one thing you can never tell a drunk, is that he/she has had enough because there is no logic running through their brain, and they've gone beyond recognising that they've had enough, and therefore they will continue to keep asking for more drink.
Also, when you've had a couple of drinks at sea level and the effects are double at altitude, the state or level of intoxication can "hit" you very quickly.
If you're the person who is going to refuse/tell an inebriated person that they can have no more alcohol, you can be faced immediately with an aggressive human bomb exploding, and then they lose what little control they have left, cross the line and cause havoc, so trying to judge the situation is extremely difficult and in
some cases it may be better to keep supplying them with alcohol (depending on the length left of the flight)"¦.many who cause "air rage" are devoid of any memory of the incident and are totally ashamed when they've sobered up.
Sometimes "air rage" is not soley down to alcohol or the amount of alcohol that a person has consumed...there may be other factors like the interaction between drugs taken for " fear of flying" plus alcohol, plus the low oxygen levels in the cabin.
On their own, they cause no problems and general symptoms of feeling unwell, dizzy, headaches will be experienced, but together at altitude, it can be a recipe for disaster.
We've also got the added problem of nicotine withdrawal which can make the person very aggitated, I don't want to drift into a smokers versus drinkers debate, but it's worth mentioning that while smokers accept that it's unacceptable to smoke in a confined space full of aviation fuel, they cannot have a fix before the actual flight anymore...all these things will create a scenario for incidents of "air rage".
I find it totally unacceptable when an airline tell you that your safety is very important to them, and would we all please stop what we're doing and watch the safety video, and then 30 mins later come down with a concoction of spirits/alcohol.
Gawd help anyone who is sat next to someone half tanked up and unable to move quickly...it doesn't bear thinking about.
So, having said all that, IMO : if there was no alcohol, the problem wouldn't be there and life would be better for everyone.
Sanji