Hi fitzy2,
We've just returned from a Med. cruise. For the formal night about 50% of the men wore a tuxedo, 40% of them wore black suits and bow ties and 10% wore smart trousers, jackets and ties, I didn't see anyone in open necked shirt at all. (Can you believe that all my husband had to pack was his suit, and half way through the flight over realised that he'd not put his suit jacket in the case!!!!! luckily I was able to borrow a dinner jacket for him off one of the singers in the entertainment group) The majority of men took their bow ties off after dinner when we went to see the show. I had to go back to the cabin and get my pashmina on two occassions as I found it rather chilly, coud have been because we were on first sitting and the room had not had time to warm up. Most of the ladies had either long dresses or long skirts and sparkly evening tops.
We were on a table for six for dinner but it was only on the formal night that we had another couple to share our table, the rest of the cruise we had the table to ourselves as the other four who should have been there couldn't be bothered to dress up for dinner, such a shame to have missed out on a lovely five course meal and being waited on hand a foot and prefering to have a self service buffet, even though the food at the buffet was really good.
Hope you have a great holiday
Wendy