I agree with you Fiona , the new poster had 2 posts that were withheld for vetting , in the context of the thread that caused enough confusion with was dealt with by Kiltman , it must also be said that that poster " nachoman " has always said thank you and been polite , imagine the confusion and frustration of the new member if it was 5 to 10 posts ??
I think the mods on here do a great job , they are even handed and level headed in their moderating duties IMO , to criticise them would again IMO be a bit " Moyes" like
I also visit a couple of other forums linked with other aspects of travel and like I find on here they are friendly and also encourage good manners , one of them like here is very well moderated the other not so and it can sometimes get a bit heated but that's the nature of that forum and is pretty much acceptable .
As regards to saying " thanks " etc i think that it's only courteous to do that , and I think the majority of people act and behave in this way . I think it's nice and pleasant if people thank me if I have posted useful advice or reports , but I don't really get upset if people don't and this is my reason , if I post something on a public forum I am willingly giving my knowledge or advice , I've decided to " give it away " it's not just there for a specific person , it's there on record for anyone else who wishes to read it , I don't feel anyone is obligated to have to say thank you , if they wish to then that's great , fine etc , if they find it specific to them then they might feel its courteous to say thanks , which is ok , if lots of people read it and all find it useful , they can all chip in and buy me a box of Roses to say thank you
The Internet can be a very personal or impersonal experience , we can interpret it as we like or choose . I like and enjoy reading travel related stuff and part of that enjoyment is giving advice or help freely if I can .