going alone
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please help just a few days left before i go to goa me and hubby have fell out over somethink stupid his party piece is he wont come on holiday i feel physicaly sick he knows i would not normally go without him but i want to go the question is will i be save and will i stand out like a sore thum i have been before any help please
Is he serious? Would he forfeit the holiday really?
If you fell able I would definitely go with out him and have a fabulous time just to get up his hooter!
You will be safe yes, just do as you do here if you was to go anywhere alone EG dont accept drinks from strangers, walk alone in secluded areas at night.
Where are you staying? I know there a few lone travelers going over the Xmas period staying in Calangute area.
If you fell able I would definitely go with out him and have a fabulous time just to get up his hooter!
You will be safe yes, just do as you do here if you was to go anywhere alone EG dont accept drinks from strangers, walk alone in secluded areas at night.
Where are you staying? I know there a few lone travelers going over the Xmas period staying in Calangute area.
Of course you should come,why waste a perfectly good holiday,plus if you tell him your going he may change his mind.If you have been before then you should know you will be safe,theres plenty of women who travel alone. it 
and you can meet up with all of us lot of mad people 
I am sure you will be fine, but better still I am sure he will come, when he calms down..
chilly
I am sure you will be fine, but better still I am sure he will come, when he calms down..chilly
im going to come i was just scared iwill come to meets he wont change his mind hes old school if u no wot i mean wot have i got to loose im already going insane here silent treatmeant 
You will be fine its a shame that you have to make this decision
but why stay at home and be unhappy life's to short, we will all talk to you 
my other half recons i would talk to the devil As if .....We fly from manchester on sat about 18.05 Where are you flying From.
Pip
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get packing now, when he sees the suitcase, he will change his mind !!
i am sure that you will make plenty of friends, everyone mixes and chats you will be fine
jane
i am sure that you will make plenty of friends, everyone mixes and chats you will be fine
jane
You can tell him that if he isn't going with you, the very least he can do is to drive you to and from the airport.
Is he the sort of person who would cut off his own nose to spite his face? I used to live with someone like that (childish), and after a while I had to leave him because it wore me down.
Is he the sort of person who would cut off his own nose to spite his face? I used to live with someone like that (childish), and after a while I had to leave him because it wore me down.
Pour gravy in all his shoes,empty his bank accout,cane all his credit cards,then stay in Goa for the rest of the season,also have your picture taken with a different waiter everyday and send it back to him!
God that brings back memories, I booked my hol 2 months ago with my partner, 2 weeks later we split up (HIM NOT ME), so I cancelled it straight away. We then decided to get back together (after he begged me of course)!!!!, so we re-booked and are now leaving on 27 Dec.....cant wait!!! No doubt your man will come to his senses as well!!!!!
MEN!!!!!!!!!
MEN!!!!!!!!!
This sounds a bit Shirley Valentineish.
You should go......you'll have a great time and it may help you put some things in perspective and make a few changes!!
You should go......you'll have a great time and it may help you put some things in perspective and make a few changes!!
As said go! You'll have a great time. You always meet people out there. I'm a bloke so its different but i'd definatly go alone if someone pulled out.
this may come across the wrong way but here goes......how can anybody take this post seriously
I must admit Richard it did make me wonder but why would someone post something like that if it wasn't true. I agree with Ellibee some men can be "swear" I was married to one for 28 years. Fortunately it took me some time but I got out and remarried a fantastic guy who loves Goa as much as I do.
I would say to Pauljim - go it alone I did in March only because OH was working and said I deserved another holiday. I always felt safe and did not feel intimidated at all. Just take precautions. Try to travel with taxi drivers you know don't walk alone in secluded areas. Have a good time !!!!!
I would say to Pauljim - go it alone I did in March only because OH was working and said I deserved another holiday. I always felt safe and did not feel intimidated at all. Just take precautions. Try to travel with taxi drivers you know don't walk alone in secluded areas. Have a good time !!!!!
This is a very strange post. Ive been a bit taken aback reading the opening post I dont know what I would do in the circumstances, depends what the fall out is about etc or even if the post is genuine.
What if Pauljim's o.h. is a total prat; is he the sort of person who would to get back at her, throw all her stuff out of the house while she was away?
what if he decides to come after all!!!!??? he definately wont want to come to the meets
chilly
chilly
thanks to all who understand times like i have been having for the past week and sorry to all the people who lives are so wounderful they dont have a crossed word. anyway been doing some of the things advised like getting cases ready booking airport and the ice seems to be breaking so there will probably be two of us at the meet fingers croosed
PAULJIM wrote:so there will probably be two of us
And if there isn't two of you, just go on your own and have a great time. I had a week alone over there in November (but for different reasons) and I had a fantastic time. Go to the meets, the guys will make sure you are okay and just heed the advice given by other HTers regarding personal safety - be as aware as you would be anywhere else.
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