Thanks for the replies everyone,
Her hair was alittle tatty when the braids were taken out but got worse when it was washed, so i rewashed it over the bath and added more conditioner that is when it bonded itself together into what i can only explain as a tattered up bun in the middle of her head.
I had friends and family along with myself trying to prize it out with combs but it was no good. Yesterday i had to take her the hairdressers to have it cut out. she had hair down her back with no fringe now she has it just above shoulder length,layers and a fringe

But i am happy to inform that she loves it

and doesnt want it long again.
She got very upset though as she is only ten and at one point the hairdresser said she might have to go very short(very scary to go from hair down your back to short)even for a adult never mind a child.
My youngest daughter also had braids but her hair was not affected at all.
Only thing is now she wants hers cut to
I will not have their hair done again when we go away. All i can say is NEVER AGAIN!!!!!!!!
Thanks again for all your help
Kerrie.
P.s Three hairdresses said they had never seen anything like it before in all their time working.