Thanks for your prompt replies.
It is true i did book it in my married name because i wanted to change my passport aswell but on hearing i would have to pay £51 and have a new photo taken(face has filled out abit since the last photo was taken

)i couldnt be doing with all the messing about and have decided to pay the £20 to have the details ammended(which i think is terrible all they have to do is change it by pressing a few buttons)I have always travelled with my kids in a different name(they are the same as dad and he was there too so maybe thats why

)but i never got stopped,saying that my kids were 8 and 6 at the time and not babies.Again everyone thankyou for your help.
Kerrie