Please forgive me for making my first post a cry for help but as a loving son I have a problem trying to help Mum and Dad. They are both in their eighties and they want a holiday but I can't find one due to Mums disability. She has very bad rheumatoid arthritis and last year due to a hospital stay of six months for a badly broken leg she is now totally reliant on a hoist and can only go from bed to a chair or wheelchair. She has no walking capability whatsoever. She has also got to use a catheter 24/7 and has been for nearly a year.
Sorry to go on
Mums life is now getting up and sitting in her chair or wheelchair until bedtime so she is now looking for a holiday in Hampshire or Dorset. Trouble is I can't find one for them that has a hoist/carers or room for mums own carers. We can get around the carer problem by paying private carers but its the hoist we are having problems with more than anything else. She is not a light lady so we have to have a real hoist and nothing too lightweight.
Can anyone in the same position as her recommend anywhere in Hampshire or Dorset as she also has problems traveling so going long distances is not an option. I would be very grateful if anyone can point me in the right direction to a hotel, guesthouse or self catering
Kind regards
Ken
only joking 
