These are not to put off folks going to Goa for their hols, its just my experience of being a 'long-termer'!
Going for two or three weeks is fab..my family and friends adore it.
Things That Get Me Down
Trying to form a queue at the bank only to be railroaded to the back time and time again. Its worse still at the post office.
Watching the local man in front of me paying half of what I do for exactly the same thing.
Giving the gardener money to help when his daughter died, only to see the very same daughter helping him at work one week later.
Giving the gardener money to rush home in a emergency as his father had expired only to have his brother (our other gardener) ask me for money one month later to go a visit this same father who had apparently had a stroke (conveyed by very convincing series of face contorsions of his symptoms).
Feeling that all foreigners have no long term memory in the eyes of some locals so they can effectually tell you anything and give blank looks when you contradict or question them.
Being spat at and given bad words to at Mapusa market (during Monsoon).. still love Mapusa although very very smelly.
Having to pay our Goan neighbours share of the complex upkeep cos he doesnt feel he has to.
Waking up to find said Goan neighbour has invited 30 guests to spend the day at (our very tiny) complex whilst he doesnt feel his need to open his house, doesnt turn up himself and they have nowhere to go to the loo. Obviously the pool came in handy!
Paying bribe after bribe just to get simple paperwork completed...this happens to locals too, they just have to pay less!
Constantly being discussed unfavourably in Konkani.
Feeling bad when other expats invite us to Bingo or Quiz nite when its just not our cup of tea!
I could go on but dont want to bore you! As stated.. tweekers (my friend who used to live in Goa calls herself that now!.. I am 100% sure you will have a great holiday, problems just seem to come when your'e there a long time!
regards Mollypoppet
Hi Molly some things that you like would also be nice
~Greed, dirty, urinating on the roads, and spitting. wants to make me
Love my true local friends and old holiday friends. Meeting new people. The sun. Meals out, and sitting near the sea watching the world go by. Just hope the shacks are up, as it is the 5th November before they allocate them (at least)
Tourism hara-kiri
Geoffrey Pond UK/Goa a letter from to-days Herald in Goad.
I cannot believe that an intrinsic part of the Goan torurism scene like the beach shacks is being tampered with and delayed. I have 4 friends arriving in Goa on Sunday and this is their first visit to Goa. I have sold them the idea of a relaxed holiday on the beach, good food, good company and good times. Sadly, that will not be the case now. Not only did they have a tough time in obtaining a visa in the UK but now they will essentially be stuck at their hotel, which is something they did not want in the first place. I am now in the embarassing position of having to explain why.
Not only is this situation a disgrace for visiting tourists but also for the local shack owners who we have grown to know and love. What about their incomes and families? The damage these tactics are causing will be irreparable to what is already likely to be a poor tourist season for Goa. When is somebody going to wake up to the realisation the Goan tourist industry is slowly commititng suicide ?
At the time of writing there are charter flights available from the UK leaving next week for a 2 week return package for £264 including taxes. I have never seen flights so cheap, it's absolute madness!
It says it all.
Mollypoppet wrote:Being spat at
As for spitting that happens here, in England, that I well know of. My cousin was spat on recently because she was trying to pull out of a car park space that an Asian man wanted to be in super quick! She didn't move fast enough for his liking.
So, although some people are disillusioned with what they thought was going to be their ideal retreat, cultures are different, some people change when they prosper.
The "majority" are blatant liars and think nothing of telling you anything to get what they want from you. As a "tweeker" you probably would not notice this.
As far as your gardeners go i'd sack them. Infact i would never ask a local to do any work in my house again.
I sometimes wish i could speak Konkani when it's obvious they are talking about you. Theres very few that were taught manners if they went to school.
As for the bingo and quiz just say NO!
Good points: It's cheap and the suns shinning....think thats it.
Queues at Bank, post office and shops... As I've been here a little longer now it happens to me less, I guess it helps being big.. - If you go to the same shop again and again tell the shop keeper he'll loose your business, same with the bank!
Locals paying less, the best thing is to find a good shop that doesn't do this and stick with them! Recommend the good shops and 'dis' the bad ones...
Liars and Cheats - Unfortunately this is a result of us foreigners being too kind, they see it as easy money, unfortunately good workers are also hard to find. You could always deduct the money from their salary, or say your father/daughter has just died and see if they help out!
I've never been spat at I think... What was the situation? Try and be 'overly' polite to everyone and don't give them any reason.??
Complex neighbours - Collect rubbish and other items and stick them to his front door!
Bribes - Don't pay bribes!!! - I haven't and I won't, ok it does make life more difficult but if anyone asks for bribes try and get on video etc and contact one of the many anti corruption departments.. This can also be done for anyone charging over the labels MRP (MAXIMUM retail price), there are heavy fines involved! Any letters you send, make two copies, and get them to stamp as received your copy.
Konkani - Learn... I am getting better at understanding but terrible at speaking, try and pick out simple words and if you think it's happening learn a couple of handy words you can, mumble in reply! (makes them wonder if you can understand or not)
Bingo and Quiz nights - Just don't do it!!! No need to feel bad...
Workers : Perhaps we should start recommending good workers on here, plumbers, labourers, gardeners, cleaners etc - maybe some of the long stayers could get together and share and give them a good fixed salary pehaps to look after 2, 3 or 4 properties (I'm thinking of gardeners / cleaners) - just a thought.
You would be surprised how many people join the forums to advertise their wares, and how sneaky they can be, in trying to hide the fact its them.
Kath x
Kath, yeah I see your point although I was thinking of local workers rather than companies...
http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/goa/A-golden-age-for-Goa/articleshow/5184736.cms
A briliant article - I am sure you will all appreciate - the happy bunnies, and the moaning minnies.
A briliant article - I am sure you will all appreciate - the happy bunnies, and the moaning minnies.
xx lassi
it is on the goa forum as well. You can click on the link there to view it
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