The atmosphere there has changed every year and this year it was really quiet and just didn't seem the same

So our dilemma is this - we are looking at next years holiday, am waiting for Easyjet to get their flight schedules out for next year then I'm booking! So where do we go?? We've looked at Cyprus, Bulgaria, Spain, Greece and even Egypt but nothing grabbed us - so back to Turkey! We do love Turkey for the country, the weather, the prices, the people - they are truly amazing (even though half the time its because they want your money lol!!) - so where do we go?
We originally liked Marmaris for the diversity and the vast choices you had - quiet bars, loud bars, karaoke bars, party bars - we loved it when the waiters would dance for you and you partied til 1-2am but then some nights we wanted quiet and we got that - but now everything shuts down dead on midnight and you don't seem to have any choices
Now although that was good, its not top of our check list any more - we’re getting older, the daughter will be 16 so we are looking for a resort which isn’t ‘dead’ but also isn’t over rowdy
Choices - Icmeler (believe it or not never been in the 9 years been going to Marmaris!!!!), Olu Deniz, Hisaronu or Fetiye (Easyjet only fly into Dalaman from our regional airport)
So help please on these resorts - what are your views on them, do they have plenty of bars and restaurants etc etc - we are starting again with Turkey lol!
Thank you so much for your help in advance (be good if you could like comments like on Facebook lol!!)
Tracey
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