Dont worry. Its a great Island and I would have said particularly suited to the younger family. Most hotels, apartments are low rise so it doesn't have the built up feel of the Costas. I would assume as every week goes by the weather will be get better & better. 
 
Haven't been to Cala n' Porter, but S'Algar where we were was nice even tho I had read some negative reviews before I went. We hired a car and went to Son Bou, Binibeca, Mahon, Cidudella, Arenal d'en Castell, Fornells, Cala n' Blanes(or might have been Blanca 

 ). All of which I would have been happy to stay in.
The one down side is it's a bit expensive to eat out. It probably costs about the same as here, but the difference is at home you wouldn't be eating out 14 nights on the trot. (unfortunately 

 ) 
If I went back, would probably go Half Board/AI but our kids are 13 & 11, which is a different matter from 2 adults & a 4 year old.
Relax and enjoy. I'm sure you'll have a ball. 

 :D