With regard to Xanadu, yes it is expensive, but not the most not by a long shot. In this life you get what you pay for and it depends what you want out of a holiday.
Last november i was staying in Raffles Singapore, last weekend i was in a Travel Lodge near Stafford. You cannot compare the two but the price reflects the difference. When i take my parents on holiday both OAP it gives me great pleasure to treat them to luxury, to be collected from the airport by taxi. For them to have 24hr room service if they want it, to get their laundry done if they need it. After having to always watch the pennies it gives me a warm glow to see them being waited on hand and foot and being treated like royalty.
I like the choice of 6 a la carte restaurants, my teenagers like to go water skiing, play tennis,learn archery, or use the bowling alley.
In july this year we are going to Zante with Kosmar for 2 weeks, a cheap holiday because we are in Orlando for two weeks in oct. I will really enjoy both holidays.
But next year i am spoiling my family and parents again. Because at this late stage in my life i can afford to, and mums and dads are not around for ever.
Take a look at the Xanadu website and watch their video it does look like a place to treat yourself to, and my parents would not fly long haul, or else i would take them all round the world.