You may have found the comment about your finances personal, however you happily provided your financial information in your original post and it's only natural that people will look at the bigger picture - put two and two together etc. I don't think ANYONE on here accused you of inventing things in your story!
We've booked linen before (for 5 peeps) and have to say I've never found it heavy at all but take into account a back injury may affect your ability to carry but I still think it's unfair of you to lay the blame at Haven's door for your son not packing his stuff up. At the end of the day it's down to organisation and YOUR responsibility. Perhaps Haven were busy - that happens sometimes!
There's plenty more I could say but I think some things are better left unsaid
