From my other post u may have read that I lost my dad at 16. My sister was 3 at the time. I am now 32 and she is 18. She came to me the other week to stop with me, and at a size 10 and 5 ft, she was saying she was fat and had to diet. I told her to get a life and stop paying attention to the POSH SPICE media, for which is unhealthy and disgusting to look at.
I would like some male point of veiw on this matter. I have always been a big girl and people tried to bully (*I say try) because I am too strong a personality to bully me at school. But hey when I wouldn't be bullied they picked on the frailer people than me, but that is when they became friendly with me.
I have always been a woman in my own right, and the media annoys me the vison they portray to young girls that the skinnier you are the more attractive. Ron tonight said " I love your boobs and Bum, don't ever get skinny" and that is from a man.
One agent for models said if at size 8 (OMG size8) she is too big for a dress I encourage her to lose half an inch or so....... OMG these men should be shot IMO
Yet in Goa and in India in gerneral, a big woman is a sexy woman because it is a sign of wealth. Ron has had to fend my male admirers off , and we have both laughed about it
Take care all, look forward to hear your opinions.
Goancrazy xx
