hello everyone , i thought i'd put my very quick feelings down about our recent holiday in Goa. Before I do I think I should explain I'm Johns OH.
Now John is one of those people who nowadays never lets anything or anyone frustrate him ( he is afterall ex special forces -- and is mellowing out ).
We always go to the Dona Sylvia -- my choice -- at least 2 times a year.
Anyway after a pleasant flight from Gatwick , we were so pleased to get into Dabolim airport, lo and behold we went straight through without too many baggage boys/men asking for the normal £1. Taxi down to the hotel went well ,we were welcomed like royalty and had a very lovely room. Food was it's normal buffet style -- but we do eat out a lot. No problems with getting a sun bed by the pool ( without giving backhanders).
So off we go down to the beach --- all is going well , but yes you might of guessed it -- Hell was about to erupt, Why ------------------------ There was a particular beach seller who we never knew and he just would not take " no thank you " as an answer , john being john was very polite for about 3 hrs of constant bombardment by this person --- but enough was enough . ( I shall use different language here ) John went to the shack to get hisself a beer and for me a pot of tea, when he got back the beachseller was sat on the sunbed and refused to move until John either brought something from him or gave him some money -- after tipping the man off the bed ,he picked him up and gently said " listen mate I don't know which part of the word NO you don't understand , but if you don't go away and leave us well alone the I'm going to--- rip your head off **** in your neck and put your head back on , now do yourself a favour and take a walk. Well I don't think anyone would of caught this person after John let go of him --- he could run for India in the Olympics. The lads in the shack were falling about in laughter as were other people who were on the beach, BTW nothing was seen of this guy again during our holiday by us or others. And yes we did buy from some of the beachsellers -- but they are the one's we always use and they know us well. So apart from that little incident we had a lovely holiday and are already booked to go again next year. Sorry if it has bored you all but I thought I had to tell you that sometimes its neccassary to show other things besides pure politeness to some people. Goa I'm missing already esp the wonderful people and the beach dog who adopted us while we were over there. Carol ( John's Lady )
Yes Johns oh he did right,i am a polite person and very mellow but this year i lost it a few times,so much so i came back and canceled my holiday to goa next year.
As I said in another post, we stay at a resort in the south as we like it it so much and were never pestered by sellers. It was usually all good natured and no problem at all. On our second visit of last year (in December), we were constantly pestered when we were on the beach and we, although normally being calm people, became stressed and were rude to several sellers who would not take no for an answer. I did not feel comfortable being rude as it isn't in my nature, but it got to the point that towards the end of the holiday, we just didn't want to go down to the beach.
We've been going to Sth Goa now for about 3yrs ( not long I know ). But it has and still is changing -- not for the best really . We go to relax and unwind , this is the first time though we've had any hassle from the beach sellers or more to the point 1 in particular.We go back to the same resort because we get on so well with everyone there and generally have a great time. No-one and nothing usually fazes John ,but sorry to say it did this time. I'm just so pleased the man took heed of his predicament and left fairly quick. John as I've said before is normally very mellow now , bit at 5'10" and weighing in at almost 14 stone ( most of it is still muscle but there is a bit of fat creeping in ) and then after 6yrs in the British Parachute Regiment and 12yrs in the French Foriegn Legion of which 7yrs was with their Special Forces Rapid Deployment Force - Chuiter Ops, I'm not about to step in and try to stop him if he decides enough is enough. Afterwards we did laugh about it and indeed still do. But for the life of me I don't understand why on earth some people cannot accept that " no thank you " means " no thank you". Anyway it never spoilt our holiday and because he likes to swim in the sea we still went to the beach at least once a day.
Them beach sellers dont take nonsense from no one
Even I know my bounderies being a veteren of the cod war and would never knowingly antagonise a beach seller
But I dont like to mention too much about my service career
(during the war)
We've been to Candolim 6 times in the last 3 years and a lot of the beach sellers from previous times just say 'Hello' and walk past - they know by now we don't buy anything.
One older lady who does massages (Tara?) always stops the first time she sees us and asks how our family is.
The new ones try to sell but seem to acccept 'No thank you' fairly quickly.
I've never been rude (nice report, Carol - I think your hubby was quite restrained given the circumstances), they just don't seem to bother us.
Maybe it's the Hannibal Lecter-style mask that I wear....
Oh my goodness- can just imagine my OH tipping the lounger over as well if that happened to us
My other half wouldn't turn over a sun lounger (he is too calm), he would expect me to do it. He would say "She, sort it out will you!"
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