bestfriend22uk,
Although there have been several incidents lately, when you consider the number of flights per day, incidents are few and far between. Statistically, air travel is still by far the safest form of transport and the most dangerous part of any flight is the drive to and from the airport. I'll come to the main incidents in a moment, but the media use something called the 'issue attention cycle'; ie anything that is current in the news and will sell papers they'll bring to the front pages. Once the issue has passed by, they don't want to know becasue it's not 'news'. It just so happens aviation is the main topic at the moment so any little incident is highlighted. Many of the day to day incidents that are normally over-looked are being raised at the moment because it makes headlines. For example, a Virgin Atlantic 747-400 (jumbo) performed an emergency landing after take off last week after an engine failure. The media never even mentioned it. The Ryanair decompression today, it's all over the media. The Virgin incident was much more of an event than the Ryanair, but they like to slate Ryanair more than Virgin so that made the news.
There have been three fatal incidents in the last week. The tragic Madrid crash that has been splashed all over the press, the one in the middle east Sunday night and one in south America last week. The Qantas issues, although dramatic were non-events really. It's inevitable that incidents will happen from time to time. When you consider the number of fatal accidents on British roads each year, and the number of non-fatal but serious, if you went of those figures which run in to many thousands, you proably wouldn't drive ever again. Don't let the latest incidents put you off flying. Also consider the media make a meal of minor incidents. For example the Ryanair loss of presurisation today. They use words to overdramatise things and put the fear of god in to people. It sells newspapers and they also get the facts very wrong in many cases. I've made my views on hear known about the media many times. Many of the journalist who cover these stories need to go back to school and find the definition of the words fact and truth. I've heard all sorts of rubbish today such as 'the aircraft plunged to 8,000ft'. That's because it's standard procedure to descend below 10,000ft ASAP where the air contains enough oxygen to breath. The aircraft didn't pummet 8,000ft because of a problem, it was an emergency descent and perfectly normal under the circumstances. The flight crew saved everyones life by doing that but lets not let the truth get in the way of a good story. I'm not saying it wouldn't be a worry to passengers and it did cause minor injuries (that's why you should always wear your seat belt while seated), but the media play on words to dramatise things. Take what they print with a pinch of salt.
If you have any specific worries about your forthcoming flight(s), please air them on here as i'm sure we can help put your mind at ease. I'm flying on friday and I'm looking forward to my flights. I hope you can too and enjoy your holiday.
Darren
is it just me but every year just after i book up something happens last year it was the glasgow airport bombing i was flying out days after it
always go glasgow but last year for some reason went from newcastle must be a god up there that knew my nerves wouldnt have handled flying from glasgow days after the bomb attack
I think those sort of problems in a strange sort of way don't make me more scared but more understanding?
Being really afraid of flying and have to do it all the time, I always think when up there of the old saying "Nothing is to be feared it is only to be understood". Its true that with the help of Dazbo and others on here I feel I now understand more about the flight than I did before and it does help. Still dead scared but not terrified as I used to be.
Has anyone tried the 'Virgin Atlantic Flying Without Fear' course and if so would they recommend it?
Sorry if this has been covered already or I've put it in the wrong place.
Thanks
Jael
Hi there fellow flyers with fear. I am britains number one fightened flier, but recently i went on google and found a hypnotist cd< i know you are all thinking "mad women" but i bought it and listened to it a few times and although i am not completely cured i can now board a plane without crying and do a 2 hour flight. Not too bad for someone who was completely mental before at the sight of an airport, let alone an aeroplane.
I've no personal experience of it, but i've heard nothing but praise for Virgins course. Having looked through the website, it seems very imformative so may be well worth it.
Darren
There's a course running in my neck of the woods next February and I'm seriously thinking of booking onto it.
Kind regards
Jael
If you are afraid it would not do you any harm to book it, than you'd have more freedom and be able to go places
just wondered if anyone else gets this, we are due to fly out to goa in jan and im already geting a bit worked up about the flight , i dont know why,but once i get to the airport im a complet wreck, the amout of time i visit the loo is unbelivable, i get very clamy and sic feeling,almost to the stage of passing out, i wont have a drink as it has no effect on claming me down, is this me just being silly or do ohters get like this?
I used to be like that on my first flight. I went to my doctor and she gave me Valium to take ,and i was ok after i took a tablet just before i was leaving. Coming back i thought" i dont need the tablets i be ok" my god if anyone got out of their seat i nearly died thinking the plane was going to tip over .
thanks, i will ask about that, i dont think im that bad about people getting out of their seats, i think its more the noises and the movement, fear of running out of fuel etc..
no your not on own hubby just the same but getting better the we fly liz
Me too. Doctor told me to take a low dose of diazepam half an hour before boarding. It really does work for me and I found that it calmed me down so much that I'm now not so frightened and sometimes don't need it. Always carry a couple with me though just in case.
You'll be surprised how many frequent fliers have the same symptoms as described here. It's a normal stress reaction that some people suffer before travelling, particularly flying. Most of the phases of flight and the common things that can cause people to worry are described on this thread but if you have any particular concerns or questions, fire away and I'll do my best to answer them. Most of the time, it's the unknown that causes you stress and the not being in control of the situation. The little noises and rattles are nothing to worry about but your mind works overtime and makes you think the wings are going to fall off or something!!!
In fact our last flight home from Turkey he vowed never to fly again. Both ways I gave him one of my travel sickness pills as I find they take the edge of my anxiety and I love th flight. Outward he was fine but coming home was awful. He was like this to and from Amsterdam earlier this year.
Anyone suffer in a similar way and have any tips. he doesn't want to feel totally knocked out and as next flight is 6hours he wants to feel fine at the end.
I suggested Bach Rescue Reemdy but he isn't really into complementary medicine and would like something that others have recommended.
many thanks.
The reason I ask is, you could have been describing me the first time I flew after smoking was banned.
Now I always stick a nicotine patch on to help me through and although it itches me terribly, they
do help as I no longer feel anxious/agitated as I did first time round.
However, he used to have an over active thyroid and would suffer bouts of anxiety as part of the symptoms. I have been trying to work out therefore if his anxiety now is more of a 'learned behaviour' than actual physical distress but he assures me the feelings of anxiety are very real.
Has your OH spoken to his doctor about this? If your surgery has a travel clinic they may be able to advise him as to how to deal with it or prescribe a mild tranquiliser for him to take before flying.
Personally, I am a nervous flier and I use Bach's - I even use them for my grandson who has Asperger's.
Good luck.
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