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thank you both so much for your replys feel better already :wave:
is it just me but every year just after i book up something happens last year it was the glasgow airport bombing i was flying out days after it :yikes
always go glasgow but last year for some reason went from newcastle must be a god up there that knew my nerves wouldnt have handled flying from glasgow days after the bomb attack :!:
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I think those sort of problems in a strange sort of way don't make me more scared but more understanding? :really
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Being really afraid of flying and have to do it all the time, I always think when up there of the old saying "Nothing is to be feared it is only to be understood". Its true that with the help of Dazbo and others on here I feel I now understand more about the flight than I did before and it does help. Still dead scared but not terrified as I used to be.
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Hi everyone

Has anyone tried the 'Virgin Atlantic Flying Without Fear' course and if so would they recommend it?
Sorry if this has been covered already or I've put it in the wrong place.

Thanks
Jael
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Hi there fellow flyers with fear. I am britains number one fightened flier, but recently i went on google and found a hypnotist cd< i know you are all thinking "mad women" but i bought it and listened to it a few times and although i am not completely cured i can now board a plane without crying and do a 2 hour flight. Not too bad for someone who was completely mental before at the sight of an airport, let alone an aeroplane. :wow :wow :fly :sun
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jael,

I've no personal experience of it, but i've heard nothing but praise for Virgins course. Having looked through the website, it seems very imformative so may be well worth it.

Darren
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Thanks Darren

There's a course running in my neck of the woods next February and I'm seriously thinking of booking onto it.

Kind regards
Jael
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If you are afraid it would not do you any harm to book it, than you'd have more freedom and be able to go places :fly
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just wondered if anyone else gets this, we are due to fly out to goa in jan and im already geting a bit worked up about the flight , i dont know why,but once i get to the airport im a complet wreck, the amout of time i visit the loo is unbelivable, i get very clamy and sic feeling,almost to the stage of passing out, i wont have a drink as it has no effect on claming me down, is this me just being silly or do ohters get like this?
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I used to be like that on my first flight. I went to my doctor and she gave me Valium to take ,and i was ok after i took a tablet just before i was leaving. Coming back i thought" i dont need the tablets i be ok" my god if anyone got out of their seat i nearly died thinking the plane was going to tip over .
Go to your doctor .
Dont bother me now and i like flying .
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thanks, i will ask about that, i dont think im that bad about people getting out of their seats, i think its more the noises and the movement, fear of running out of fuel etc.. :)
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no your not on own hubby just the same but getting better the we fly :) liz
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Me too. Doctor told me to take a low dose of diazepam half an hour before boarding. It really does work for me and I found that it calmed me down so much that I'm now not so frightened and sometimes don't need it. Always carry a couple with me though just in case.
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You'll be surprised how many frequent fliers have the same symptoms as described here. It's a normal stress reaction that some people suffer before travelling, particularly flying. Most of the phases of flight and the common things that can cause people to worry are described on this thread but if you have any particular concerns or questions, fire away and I'll do my best to answer them. Most of the time, it's the unknown that causes you stress and the not being in control of the situation. The little noises and rattles are nothing to worry about but your mind works overtime and makes you think the wings are going to fall off or something!!!

Darren
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OH is a seasoned traveller but gets so anxious on the plane. You wouldn't know it as he goes very quiet and no physical signs but inside he feels awful.

In fact our last flight home from Turkey he vowed never to fly again. Both ways I gave him one of my travel sickness pills as I find they take the edge of my anxiety and I love th flight. Outward he was fine but coming home was awful. He was like this to and from Amsterdam earlier this year.

Anyone suffer in a similar way and have any tips. he doesn't want to feel totally knocked out and as next flight is 6hours he wants to feel fine at the end.

I suggested Bach Rescue Reemdy but he isn't really into complementary medicine and would like something that others have recommended.

many thanks.
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Squirrelchops, does your husband smoke at all?

The reason I ask is, you could have been describing me the first time I flew after smoking was banned.
Now I always stick a nicotine patch on to help me through and although it itches me terribly, they
do help as I no longer feel anxious/agitated as I did first time round.
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No Milly-Molly..he stopped in 2007.

However, he used to have an over active thyroid and would suffer bouts of anxiety as part of the symptoms. I have been trying to work out therefore if his anxiety now is more of a 'learned behaviour' than actual physical distress but he assures me the feelings of anxiety are very real.
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Hi, Squirrelchops (nice name, by the way!)

Has your OH spoken to his doctor about this? If your surgery has a travel clinic they may be able to advise him as to how to deal with it or prescribe a mild tranquiliser for him to take before flying.

Personally, I am a nervous flier and I use Bach's - I even use them for my grandson who has Asperger's.

Good luck.
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