Hi there rebel.So it wasnt only me who drove around and around trying to find the exit out of the airport.
Took us 4 curcuits trying to find the Seville turn off,then 40 mins getting lost in Malaga.The motorways is another story.
One thing i will say is if you are attempting to drive on Spanish roads is drive during the day,as our flight landed at 10pm and we took it for granted that it was the same as driving in the UK.What should have took us 40-45 mins took us a epic 3 1/2 hrs(It got too such a stage with me and the missus bickering so much that we nearly ended sleeping in the car till dawn)
We attempted this last year,all i can say is what a nightmare.
rebel you described it perfectly.Anyone attempting it, all i can say is, the best of British.