Hello,
i know what you mean, we were booked to go to LA in november 2004 & had the same problem & decided to go to london so he could apply for his visa!! Anyway they said no.... so we had to cancel our holiday & lost alot of money in the process. In the embassy they told him stay in the same job for a few years & then reapply....
We went back in 2008 & this time they recommended him & he recieved a 6 month one entry visa. We have been again since & the same again they have recommended him now just gotta wait. I think the only people who wont have to wait is if you can get a visa there & then & actually leave your passport with the embassy.
For some reason they are taking a while with alot of people, the letter he came out with states the current time for the 2 offices is taking approx 14 - 16 weeks some may take longer. To be honest if you do want to go & get a visa maybe on one of the application forms you could put your travel date about a month earlier, as to have your visa arrive like 3 weeks before your intended date of travel isnt really good.... I asked the embassy & they said once your visa is issued you can use it whenever you like untill its expiery date. As i was allready thinking theres no way were going to be able to go when we have said.
I know that may sound like a lie, but its only an intended date of travel...... A few other people i have spoke to have actually ended going up later as there just not notified in time!!
Anyway yeah my husband has a few convictions, from around 10 years ago when he was like 17 18 & it was crime involving moral turpitude. Not sure whether as because when we went in 2004 it would of only been maybe 6 years & now its like 10, more time has elapsed.... this obviously goes in your favour.
You do have a tough decision really, you can be honest & hope you get a good outcome.... or you can take a chance & tick no!! again you dont want to be turned away, however i have never actually heard of this, unless people tick yes & dont get a visa!! I guess at least if you tick no, theres the hope of a good holiday, where once you have been to the embassy if they say no thats it really!!
I did actually speak to someone in london once some kind of legal type person which helps people get visas, was a while ago though, they told me on the phone, the only way the us know you have a criminal record is if you tell them..... she also told me that my husband would probably never get a visa or find it very difficult in the near future because of his multiple convictions, well im glad she was wrong on that! you see sometimes you just dont know anything!
personally id hate to get to america & turned away when im expecting a holiday of a lifetime!!
you obviously seem settled now, twins etc family so maybe if you were to go in the embassy you would have all this in your favour! Why dont you apply for your police certificate & see whats actually on there? like what dates etc.