It must be something about both of us being 48
I presume its menopause though no give away hot flushes yet Wish mine had gone lighter instead its the reverse
Kitter
You really should pluck up courage and go see the doctor.
I know it's not easy and it's one of those areas where we don't like being examined, regardless whether or not we have had children.
You could be suffering with Fibroids ( they are very common) and depending where they are, for example in the womb or in the linning of the womb or in the cervix or outside the womb....all can be treated before the invasive surgery of an hysterectomy.
I have been there and got the T-shirt

you cannot carry on bleeding heavily month after month, you will become anaemic and you really shouldn't have to put up with it.....establishing a regular cycle and tackling the blood flow might also indicate in the tests that you are in the pre-menopausal phase.
I had a total hysterectomy at the age of 46, for exactly the same symptoms that you are describing and having fibroids....but that was 14 years ago and medical science including HRT and its dosage has come a long way since then.
As fibroids swell when oestrogen levels are high, you could have an injection of a special hormone that reduces the oestrogen levels, thus making the fibroids shrink, the bleed flow light and in combination with a low dose HRT....all your problems could be solved.
A small plastic gadget inserted into your womb that slowly releases the hormone Progesterone will stop the linning of your womb from growing thick and hence when it sheds, the bleed will be lighter.
There are many options available and the only way to find out which is best for you....is go see the quack.
Your husband is right ( for once)
Sanjiiii
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