OK, I don't know if it was my review that has sparked any of this bad feeling, but I do hope not. Perhaps my experience of the HV was coloured by the fact that my two kids did not want to get involved in the Kids Clubs that much, and without that, given the remote location of the HV, there is not much else to do. I stand by my opinions of the food, service at the bars and adult entertainment at night though (although I never said the bathrooms were dirty, either public or in the rooms).
Of course a holiday is what you make it, and if your kids get involved in what's going on you may have a very different experience. I didn't go expecting a bad holiday, in fact it may be the last one I go on for a while due to health problems so I was really looking forward to it, but it didn't meet expectations and I felt people should know why.
As far as Flamingo Oasis goes, it was fantastic in 2003 in comparison, but obviously I can't comment on it now.