BHIC
I've just been trying to work out the first time I went abroad and I can remember that my oldest son was still in nappies during the night time, and this was when disposable nappies were just coming onto the market and very expensive, so I took terry towelling nappies and washed them by hand my son was 35 years old 2 days ago and we went to Spain for a week.
I'll not list the countries that I have visited, but I will say that I have been "done" 3 times and 2 of those times were my own fault and the third for being in the wrong place at the wrong time and not related to crime.
I got "done" with the earrings, I also got "done" by getting into a taxi with a high denomination peseta note and the taxi driver short changed me and sped off that's another lesson learnt, I never get into a taxi without having a low denomination note, which will be Euro now and a bit of pre-planning prevents this ever happening again.
The other incident was being in Mijas Pueblo and walking by the donkeys when one with diarrhoea decided to open its bowels and when the

hit the road it splattered all over me"¦I had to walk around and buy some more clothes or get the public bus back covered in donkey
It wasn`t funny at the time
The point of all this is to try and explain that a bit of common sense will keep you reasonably safe and I think given 2 incidents in over 30 years then I will stick with my opinion on the subject.
People reading this may think I spend all my days around the pool and sit in the hotel all night, far from it, I use public transport and independent tours discovering the area.
What I do
not do is walk around "tanked up" in unlit areas in the early hours, I let no one approach me with anything, and I only carry enough cash for that day in a purse with a chain attached to my belt loop.etc. etc. etc.
The pea men....I just walk past them, they are a non-descript to me.... I've scraped better stuff off the bottom of my shoe.
With regards to the blanket trips, I'm not knocking them, they are a great way to see the surrounding areas and for some people this is the only way that they ever get out of the resort, but the fact remains that they still hope to sell you something and some people may be persuaded to buy an item that they wouldn't have bought or even thought about before I think you called it "good tactics"
Child free places are Tour Operators dangling a carrot before you, they are very limited in numbers and invariably have gone when you try to book, unless you are on the ball the moment they are advertised"¦but the point is that you have looked and may be tempted for something else"¦I think they call that a good marketing ploy.
I might be getting on in years, too plain talking for my own good and some would say I need to get a life, but I don't plan on changing something if it is not broken.
Besos xxx
Sanji