Hi Barrbarr
We are booking flights / hotel separately but only because I could not get a package deal with flights that suited us...if you read my earlier post you will see that Eclipse were offering a
really good price if you can fit a free child place into your equation and don't mind night flights.
We booked flights from Manchester in the end that had good day time flight times with Direct Line Holidays (part of Mytravel)..we are waiting to book the accommodation as prices on the accommodation only sites are not available for a few more weeks yet in the main.
I am pretty confident, from past experience, that you would get a better price off the accommodation only sites (as long as you pick the right one !) than booking direct with the hotel -that said you should always check the hotel's price so you have a measure (also you never know they could have a deal on).
You generally can save a fair bit booking DIY if you have children and are booking outside of the main school holidays (or even if overlapping by a few days). But you should always explore the package option to be able to measure. I am aiming for the Eclipse price but doubt if I will beat it...but I'm willing to pay a little extra as we are only going for a week and would find the flight times they were offering just too disruptive on such a short holiday (1 week)....thus we will trade a little to gain flexibility/suitability.
If & when I find a good accommodation only provider for this hotel, for next year, I will post it on here for anyone interested.